Reflections
Community Voices Ignite Change
Reflections is the heart of Queer Reflection—a space where queer stories ignite connection, challenge injustice, and honor those who came before. Through truth and imagination, we build community and spark change—with purpose, pride, and joy.

Stripped: The Cowardice Behind Renaming the USNS Harvey Milk
In a blatant act of queer erasure, conservative Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth has ordered the USNS Harvey Milk renamed. From deleting trans identities in the military to whitewashing Stonewall, this is more than symbolic—it’s war on our history.
From Screen to Sidewalk: Why AR Is Our Next Move
We’re bringing queer stories into the real world—layered into the spaces where empathy is needed most. Here’s why Queer Reflection is moving from the screen to the sidewalk, and how AR can help us feel these stories more deeply.
“Learn to Be Brave”: How An Erasure Song Gave Me the Courage to Create Queer Reflection
Queer Reflection founder Bryan Alexander reflects on how Erasure’s “Hideaway” gave him the courage to come out—and inspired the creation of an empathy platform for those still learning to be brave.
The Color Purple Taught Me to See Myself—So I Built a Place Where Others Could Too
Queer Reflection founder Bryan Alexander shares how Alice Walker’s novel “The Color Purple” shaped his identity, inspired his NYU essay, and planted the seeds for his empathy-driven platform.
We Were Born For Love: What Neuroscience Taught Me About Empathy, Queerness, and Building Something Better
Inspired by Dr. Bruce Perry’s “Born for Love,” Queer Reflection explores how empathy shapes queer identity, why it’s endangered—and how immersive storytelling can revive it.
More Than a Story: The Technologies Powering Queer Reflection
Queer Reflection blends AI, AR, emotional branching, and narrative design to build the future of empathy. This isn’t just tech—it’s a feeling engine.
Why Now Matters: Building Empathy in a World That Wants to Forget
In a world where queer rights are under renewed attack, Queer Reflection explores why building empathy through immersive experience is more urgent than ever.
The Day I Disappeared: On Queer Invisibility and Why We Build
Queer Reflection founder Bryan Alexander shares a personal story about queer invisibility, emotional design, and why we must build spaces where no one disappears to survive.
Why Feeling is the Future of Inclusion
Queer Reflection explores why empathy—not just information—is the key to ending homophobia. Discover how immersive storytelling can transform hearts and minds.
Queer Reflection: Transforming Understanding Through Immersive Empathy
Queer Reflection is a groundbreaking empathy platform that goes beyond education—offering immersive, emotionally responsive experiences that let users live through the joys, fears, and challenges of LGBTQ+ lives. By bridging the empathy gap through AI-driven storytelling and augmented reality, we’re not just changing minds—we’re rewiring them.
The First Encounter: Coming Out at the Dinner Table
Our first Encounter begins at the dinner table—an intimate, emotional simulation where you come out to your family and feel every reaction in real time. It’s immersive, raw, and the first step in building a more empathetic world. We’re inviting the queer community to help us choose what comes next.
Why I Started Queer Reflection
I didn’t start Queer Reflection to build another platform—I built it because I needed a way to survive the silence, the misunderstanding, and the distance between queer lives and the world’s willingness to feel them. This is more than tech. It’s a love letter, a mirror, and a spark.
The Shoulders We Stand On
The torch they carried lit the fire that fuels us still.
The Shoulders We Stand On is more than remembrance—it’s invitation. These are the stories of those who carved light from shadow, who stood tall in their truth so that we might stand taller in ours. To read them is to deepen your sense of history, widen your capacity for empathy, and root yourself in a lineage of courage. Their lives are not just echoes—they are instructions.
The Shoulders We Stand On: José Sarria, The Empress Norton, and the Royal Art of Queer Defiance
Before Harvey Milk, there was José Sarria—the drag queen, activist, and self-proclaimed Empress Norton. This post honors José’s royal defiance, political courage, and the dazzling power of queer pageantry as resistance.
The Shoulders We Stand On: Harvey Milk and the Power of Visibility
Harvey Milk believed that visibility was survival—and that hope could never be silent. This post honors his legacy as a leader, an activist, and a symbol of the power that comes from simply being seen.
The Shoulders We Stand On: Quentin Crisp and the Power of Unapologetic Self-Expression
Quentin Crisp refused to hide. His life as an artist, writer, and self-described “stately homo” challenges us to consider where we trade authenticity for approval—and what we might reclaim by letting go of that need.
The Shoulders We Stand On: Audre Lorde and the Power of Voice
Audre Lorde taught us that silence is not safety—it’s complicity. This post honors her work as a poet, activist, and truth-teller, and asks what it means to transform silence into language and action.
The Shoulders We Stand On: Alan Turing and the Codebreaker’s Quiet Courage
Alan Turing cracked the code that helped end a war—but his own country punished him for being gay. This post honors his genius, his quiet courage, and the hard lessons his story still teaches us about bias, brilliance, and belonging.
The Shoulders We Stand On: Marsha P. Johnson and the Radical Act of Joy
Marsha P. Johnson showed us that joy can be resistance—and that care is its own kind of protest. This post honors her life, her fight, and the emotional labor that still shapes the work we do today.
The Shoulders We Stand On
Queer Reflection’s tribute series, “The Shoulders We Stand On,” honors twelve queer pioneers whose courage, brilliance, and defiance made this moment possible. Their stories aren’t just history—they’re the blueprints for the empathy, action, and change we’re building today.
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