Alan Turing cracked the code that helped end a war—but his own country punished him for being gay. This post honors his genius, his quiet courage, and the hard lessons his story still teaches us about bias, brilliance, and belonging.
Marsha P. Johnson showed us that joy can be resistance—and that care is its own kind of protest. This post honors her life, her fight, and the emotional labor that still shapes the work we do today.
Queer Reflection’s tribute series, “The Shoulders We Stand On,” honors twelve queer pioneers whose courage, brilliance, and defiance made this moment possible. Their stories aren’t just history—they’re the blueprints for the empathy, action, and change we’re building today.
Queer Reflection founder Bryan Alexander reflects on how Erasure’s “Hideaway” gave him the courage to come out—and inspired the creation of an empathy platform for those still learning to be brave.
Queer Reflection founder Bryan Alexander shares how Alice Walker’s novel “The Color Purple” shaped his identity, inspired his NYU essay, and planted the seeds for his empathy-driven platform.
History isn’t just what we remember — it’s what we’re allowed to remember. When the government deletes words like transgender from the Stonewall Monument or scrubs queer veterans from military archives, it’s not cleanup. It’s erasure. And in a country that already treats queer lives as expendable, silence is strategy.
Queer Reflection is built to spark transformation, not just awareness.
One day the boy decided to let them know the way he felt inside. He could not stand to hide it. His mother she broke down and cried. Oh my father, why don’t you talk to me now? Oh my mother, do you still cry yourself to sleep? Are you still proud of your little boy?
Don’t be afraid. You don’t have to hideaway.
The boy, he was rejected by the people that he cared for. It's not what they expected, but he could not keep it secret anymore. Far from home now, waiting by the telephone. There's a new world. You can make it on your own. Are you still proud of your little boy?
Don’t be afraid. You don’t have to hideaway, no.
Don’t be afraid. Love will mend your broken wing. Time will fade away. Learn to be brave.
—Hideaway by erasure from The Circus album
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