Audre Lorde taught us that silence is not safety—it’s complicity. This post honors her work as a poet, activist, and truth-teller, and asks what it means to transform silence into language and action.
Alan Turing cracked the code that helped end a war—but his own country punished him for being gay. This post honors his genius, his quiet courage, and the hard lessons his story still teaches us about bias, brilliance, and belonging.
Marsha P. Johnson showed us that joy can be resistance—and that care is its own kind of protest. This post honors her life, her fight, and the emotional labor that still shapes the work we do today.
Queer Reflection’s tribute series, “The Shoulders We Stand On,” honors twelve queer pioneers whose courage, brilliance, and defiance made this moment possible. Their stories aren’t just history—they’re the blueprints for the empathy, action, and change we’re building today.
Queer Reflection founder Bryan Alexander reflects on how Erasure’s “Hideaway” gave him the courage to come out—and inspired the creation of an empathy platform for those still learning to be brave.
Queer Reflection founder Bryan Alexander shares how Alice Walker’s novel “The Color Purple” shaped his identity, inspired his NYU essay, and planted the seeds for his empathy-driven platform.
Queer Reflection’s new Empathy Map worksheet is a powerful tool for creators, educators, activists, and anyone seeking to better understand the emotional experience of queer lives. Ground your storytelling, design, or outreach in lived truth—and help build a world that truly listens. […]
AI isn’t here to replace queer voices—it’s here to reflect them. At Queer Reflection, we’re using AI to deepen empathy, not dilute it. This post explores how technology, when guided by lived experience, can become a mirror for emotional truth. […]
On July 17, 2025, Trump dismantles the ‘Press 3’ LGBTQ+ youth lifeline. This poetic, furious reflection demands action as we stand guard over our queer souls. […]
Queer Reflection isn’t for everyone—and that’s the point. We built this platform for those ready to listen with their hearts, not argue with their politics. If you’re willing to feel what we feel, this space is for you. […]
Before religion codified it, homophobia didn’t exist. It was taught, enforced, ritualized. This blog post unpacks how religious institutions transformed diverse human expressions of love and gender into sources of shame, and how queer liberation demands that we confront these sacred roots of oppression. […]
The Shoulders We Stand On is our ongoing blog series honoring the queer pioneers whose courage and defiance paved the way—and continue to inspire generations.
Quentin Crisp refused to hide. His life as an artist, writer, and self-described “stately homo” challenges us to consider where we trade authenticity for approval—and what we might reclaim by letting go of that need. […]
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