Queer Reflection

The First Encounter: Coming Out at the Dinner Table

by Bryan Alexander | Jan 28, 2025 | Empathy in Action, Reflections

Our first Encounter begins at the dinner table—an intimate, emotional simulation where you come out to your family and feel every reaction in real time. It’s immersive, raw, and the first step in building a more empathetic world. We’re inviting the queer community to help us choose what comes next.

Why I Started Queer Reflection

by Bryan Alexander | Jan 11, 2025 | Founder’s Notes, Reflections

I didn’t start Queer Reflection to build another platform—I built it because I needed a way to survive the silence, the misunderstanding, and the distance between queer lives and the world’s willingness to feel them. This is more than tech. It’s a love letter, a mirror, and a spark.

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Queer Reflection is built to spark transformation, not just awareness.

One day the boy decided to let them know the way he felt inside.
He could not stand to hide it. 
His mother she broke down and cried.
Oh my father, why don’t you talk to me now? 
Oh my mother, do you still cry yourself to sleep?
Are you still proud of your little boy?

Don’t be afraid. You don’t have to hideaway.

The boy, he was rejected by the people that he cared for.
It's not what they expected, but he could not keep it secret anymore.
Far from home now, waiting by the telephone.
There's a new world.
You can make it on your own.
Are you still proud of your little boy?

Don’t be afraid.
Love will mend your broken wing.
Time will fade away.
Learn to be brave.

—Hideaway by erasure from The Circus album

The Shoulders We Stand On is our ongoing blog series honoring the queer pioneers whose courage and defiance paved the way—and continue to inspire generations.

The First Encounter: Coming Out at the Dinner Table

Why I Started Queer Reflection

Recent Reflections

Queer Reflection is built to spark transformation, not just awareness.

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